i had learned a while back - that if something is on your mind it is best to speak your mind get it off you chest so to speak... and in the process it is to do just that - get it off your chest... the motivation of such things is not create drama or to create a tit for tat type of scenario... it is just to speak your mind in a tone as non-argumentative as possible... (or something like that)... and in that you should know that others may repsond differently than you anticipate... they may point out flaws to you... they may take it as personal criticism and be very angry... but since that should not be your intention, do not get sucked into that type of back and forth...
in all of it i prepare myself for silence - i have the resolve that my thoughts are valid and it is not to stir the pot... do not get sucked in... just silence... well CRAP! an apology? that wasn't on the radar...
YES - it may be the right response but had been prepped for something else... so thank you...
yes - these are things that go through my mind at 530AM as i walk through a darkened neighborhood
or 630PM as i stroke through a pool ---- random hot days on the bike? i think of all those gym teachers that geve me Cs....
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